Ellen D. Misner
March 12th, 1936 - November 6th, 2025
Vedder-Scott & Zinger Funeral Home
It is with profound sadness, but joy of her salvation that Ellen D. Misner, 89,
of Montour Falls, NY, received her angel wings on November 6, 2025 at Seneca
View Nursing Facility in Montour Falls, NY.
Ellen was born in the Town of Montour on March 12, 1936, the daughter of the
late Ernest W. Davis and Bernice Markle Davis. Ellen married her high school
sweetheart, Bruce D. Misner on August 27, 1954.
When her children were young, Ellen was a stay at home mom and enjoyed afternoon
coffee gatherings with her many friends and family, but still had a hot meal on
the table by 5:00 pm when Bruce came home from work. After her youngest daughter
started school, she went to work in the Cafeteria at BC Cate and then in the
kitchen at Odessa Montour Central School and affectionately became known as “The
Ice Cream Lady” and “Mom” to her children’s classmates and friends. Ellen then
went on to work at Schuyler Hospital as one of their cooks where she worked with
and mentored many high school kids in their first jobs.
Family was her priority and many meals were enjoyed with her siblings either in
their homes or around a big table at the Blue Ribbon Diner.
In her free time, Ellen enjoyed reading and making a lot of “knots”, whether it
was knitting or crocheting, and made the most beautiful socks, sweaters,
tablecloths, doilies and blankets. She was also an excellent seamstress, having
made her daughter, Kathy’s wedding dress from a picture, the Santa Clause suit
that George Emery wore for many years for the enjoyment of all of the children
in the area, many amazing Halloween costumes for her children, bridesmaid’s
dresses for her daughter, Margaret’s wedding and also for other weddings of
friends. Alongside her brother, Glenn, she was very involved with the Squires
and Pages Drum and Bugle Corps.
Ellen did not have any formal training but she lovingly helped take care of many
of her friends and family members during their final years (including her
husband and many siblings). When asked how she knew what to do, she always said
“I just did it”.
She was a lifetime member of the Montour Falls United Methodist Church and
served as Lay Leader, worked on many committees and at many brunches and dinners
along with giving her children a wonderful foundation.
Ellen was predeceased by her husband, Bruce on October 11, 1997. She was the
last surviving of her eight siblings having been predeceased by Anna Frances
(John) Forbes (2002), Ruth Sawyer (1985), Levi (Beverly) Davis (2000), Doyle
(Kathryn) Davis (2000), Agnes (Frank) Wyre (2009), Leona (John/”Sandy”) Sandusky
(2022), Dorothy DeGraw (1997) and Glenn (Shirley) Davis (2004).
She is survived by her daughters, Yvonne Misner, Kathleen (John) Abidin and
Margaret (David) Carlson along with her grandsons, Kyle (Kristen) Palmisano,
Kreig Palmisano and “Bronka” to Dominik Brody Davis, Sister-in-Law, Sandra
(Kenneth) Swab and numerous (40) special nieces and nephews and their extended
families. Ellen loved all of her family without measure.
Ellen's daughters cannot express enough their appreciation for Seneca View's
excellent medical care and the staff's daily care provided with dignity and true
affection.
Family and friends are invited to memorial visitation on Monday, November 24,
2025 from 12:00-1:00 pm at the Montour Falls United Methodist Church, 124 Owego
St., Montour Falls, NY with her Memorial Service directed by Pastor Mike Kelly
at 1:00 pm. A luncheon will follow at the Church. Interment at the Montour
Cemetery will be held privately by the family.
Memorial donations may be made to Seneca View, Attn: Activities Dept, Unit 2,
220 Steuben Street, Montour Falls, NY 14865 or the Montour Falls United
Methodist Church, PO Box 309, Montour Falls, NY 14865.
Funeral arrangements are under the direction of Vedder-Scott & Zinger Funeral
Home, Montour Falls, NY. To leave the family a message of condolence, please
visit www.vedderscottzinger.com
Publication date: November 12th, 2025